I started this blog when Mrs T was first pregnant in 2005, after 11 years of marriage. No-one knew we were hoping for a family: it was our big secret. That pregnancy ended soon afterwards in a traumatic miscarriage - but remained a secret in real life, and was followed by a period of unexplained infertility.
Our current pregnancy is no secret - but the rest of the story is.
You can read the background here and the day things went wrong here.
All names have been changed for the sake of anonymity.
Here are some other blogs I read about pregnancy, loss, infertility, hope, children... and so on